The most Dangerous And Harmful Liars are people have a tendency to become addicted to being right,
and tend to have little regard for the wisdom of the masses.
For instance, a person may get addicted to believing that they are always right;
they become so convinced of their being right that they often have difficulty admitting that they were wrong.
And they also get addicted to having the ability to decide what is right and what is wrong;
they are so convinced of their being right that they often have difficulty admitting that they have made a mistake.
I am right therefore you are wrong
When we are so certain of our being right that we can have no doubts as to our determination to be right,
we may make decisions based on having the certainty that we will be right,
and not on considering the wisdom of the masses.
As a result, they often have difficulty giving up their position when they realize they have made a mistake;
rather they tend to hold on to their position, or to make it worse, for fear they will lose their certainty.
When we hold on to our position, or make decisions based on having certainty that we are right,
we find ourselves in a Catch 22: we cannot give up our certainty because we want to be certain,
but we cannot make a decision based on the wisdom of the masses because
we lack the conviction to accept advice that is not aligned with our intention.
Because they are so certain of their position, they are often unable to move forward because
they have no desire to learn from others;
they have little interest in learning what others think about their direction or their plans,
they prefer to stay in their position and believe that they know what is best for themselves.
When we find ourselves in a Catch 22, we need to recognize the cause of the problem.
If we can, we need to find a way to resolve the cause of the problem so we can move forward.
I don’t care what you think
The most difficult time to give up or change our course in life is when we are surrounded by fools.
It is particularly challenging when we have access to lots of fools that have the willingness to argue with us.
It is even more difficult when we have access to fools that are also very skilled at convincing others of their position.
Fools surround us in the society and they may be skilled at convincing others that their intention is the right intention,
they may be very skilled at convincing others that their plan will happen,
they may be skilled at convincing others that they are right and we are wrong,
and/or they may be very skilled at convincing others that they are clever.
Who’s the fool now?
When there is lots of fool around us, we need to recognize the fools and then we need to remove them from the picture.
The easiest way to do that is to tell them to go to hell, or to ban them from the house, or to refuse to sell their product,
or to refuse to buy their products, or to tell them to go away and then move forward.
There are some fools that are simply unaware that they are fools.
Sometimes fools create trouble so that they can get attention for themselves.
Sometimes fools take certain actions that cause problems for the reason that they want attention.
Sometimes fools are simply using other fools for their own purposes.
Sometimes fools pretend to be intelligent to gain attention. Sometimes fools are simply being fools.
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