We all know that you have to play hard to get sometimes if you want your partner to really be attracted to you. However, this doesn’t mean that you can’t focus on making him want you more as well. In this blog post, we will take a look at how you can make him want you more, starting with how you can make him fall in love with you.
A romantic relationship is likened to a roller coaster as it goes through ups and downs. Sometimes, you have a perfect relationship, but at other times, you experience some obstacles. One of such obstacles could be that he is not taking notice of you.
If your boyfriend seems distant from you, it could be because of one of the following reasons:
1. He’s really busy at work. Instead of dwelling on the fact that your boyfriend isn’t making time for your relationship, send him a text. Let him know you’re still there for him and that you’ll always be there for him.
2. He may be going through a rough patch. Instead of shying away from your boyfriend, give him a hug and tell him you love him. If he seems to be distancing himself, it may be because he’s feeling lonely or insecure. So, the best thing you can do is listen to him.
3. He could be seeing someone else. If your boyfriend seems distant from you, it could be because he’s cheating on you. So, the best way to find out if he’s cheating is by confronting him. Be honest with him and ask any questions that you may have.
4. He may be ignoring you. If your boyfriend seems distant from you, it could be because he’s ignoring you. So, the best thing to do is to talk to him. You can ask him what’s bothering him or ask him what’s on his mind.
In any case, If you desire, you can overcome these fears and insecurities by making him want you more with these 5 tips.
Be yourself.
Just be yourself. Make him want you more.
Don’t force yourself to become someone you are not. Forcing yourself to be someone different just to make him like you, is going to make him hate you in the end.
Be honest with how you feel. Do not lie to him about liking him, because in the end, you will regret it. Be yourself and make him like you more.
Don’t over think everything. Do not overthink every single move you make, thinking what you should do to make him like you. Instead, just be yourself.
Don’t freak out if you don’t like him back. Accept it. If he doesn’t like you, accept it and move on. Don’t force yourself to hate someone just to keep him.
Never change who you are just to make him like you. Don’t change who you are just to make him like you. You are beautiful just the way you are.
Be positive and upbeat.
It is imperative to be as positive as possible when dealing with a man. Do not be negative or critical for any reason.
Men want a confident woman who has a positive outlook on life. This does not mean that you should be fake or fake yourself. But, you should keep your feelings and emotions to yourself.
Be attentive and interested in what he has to say.
If you want to be a good wingman, you have to be attentive and interested in what he has to say.
1. If he’s talking about something boring to you, ask him about it. It could be something he’s passionate about.
2. Instead of making conversation just to fill the silence, ask him questions and keep the conversation going. Don’t talk about things that don’t matter to him.
3. Don’t dominate the conversation. If it’s your date’s idea to go to a certain place, don’t turn it into a “let me show you something” moment.
Be flirty and playful.
Flirty and playful are two traits that send a clear message to your man that you are open to having more with him.
Flirty and playful become even more important as you and your partner get to know each other better, and as your relationship begins to mature. Flirty and playful also become more important as you two begin to have more sex.
Of course, it is important to be playful and flirty with a man as well as with a woman, since you both want the same thing from a relationship.
Be flirtatious and playful with your man by smiling and laughing with him. Laugh at things he says, and laugh at jokes from him, even if they aren’t very funny.
Do little things for him. For example, sometimes tell a joke and laugh about it with him, and sometime give him a kiss.
Be playful with your man by tickling him and making him laugh. Sometimes, even if it’s just putting your hand on his shoulder, or touching his waist or back, you can tickle him enough to make him laugh.
Be a good listener.
Have you ever heard anyone say that you need to have a discussion with your partner on a subject that he or she has strong views on? Maybe he or she thinks that a particular situation or decision is the wrong one.
This might sound like a good idea on the surface, but deep down you know it isn’t, and that discussion will end up being a waste of time and effort.
Why? Because you’re going to end up either arguing with your partner, or you’ll just sit there and listen while he or she goes on and on. Neither of which is productive.
The far better option is to just have your partner tell you their point of view. Then, listen carefully, understand where they’re coming from, and respect their feelings.
A good listener is a good communicator.
Be supportive and understanding.
Make him want you more.
If you’ve already built a friendship with your ex, then this will be easier for you.
Let him know that you miss him, whether he’s with his new girlfriend or not, and that you want him back in your life, whether he admits it or not.
Let him know that you realized that he made you happy and that you miss him, and that you want him back.
Be supportive and understanding.
Be confident and positive.
1. Be confident and outgoing.
Being confident is an attractive trait and will give your man more confidence to take things further.
Body language conveys confidence. Try to sit up straight, stand tall, and focus on his eyes. Walk with pace and determination.
Be positive. The more positive you are, the more your man will want to be around you.
Keep your head up, look people in the eye, smile, and laugh a lot.
2. Focus on your strengths.
What qualities make you attractive to your man?
How does he feel about you?
What do you like about him?
What things make you insecure?
3. Show your man you’re interested.
Don’t make your man guess.
Men aren’t mind-readers, so he can’t read your mind. Be clear and direct.
4. Be playful and kind.
Show your man that you can be playful.
Show him that you can be serious, but you also have fun.
5. Don’t play games.
If you’ve had so much fun with a man, he may think it’s a great idea to hang out again, but if you’re only playing games with him, he may come away thinking you aren’t ready for a relationship.
6. Be positive about the future.
Don’t dwell on the negative, but focus on the positive. Men love a woman who is optimistic.
Conclusion
So, how can you make him fall in love with you? The best way to do this is to make him feel like you are his one and only. You can do this by making him feel safe, loved, and connected. It’s important to note that making these changes takes time. They won’t happen overnight. However, the more you focus on them, the better your relationship will become. I hope this article has been helpful. Let us know in the comments – we’d love to hear your thoughts!
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