change https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com The Magazine For Self Growth And Wellness Mon, 14 Feb 2022 01:31:14 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0.2 https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/Letter-S-icon_34798-100x100.png change https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com 32 32 10 Steps To Getting Your Life Back https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/10-steps-to-getting-your-life-back/ https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/10-steps-to-getting-your-life-back/#respond Mon, 14 Feb 2022 01:26:22 +0000 https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/?p=2690  

We are in the middle of the second week of February, and I’m sure many of you are thinking about your New Year’s resolutions. Are you ready for the healing that’s coming? Have you made any plans to change your life this year? Are you going to make some changes? If you have made no plans for yourself, or haven’t even thought about it yet, you need to get busy!

You have probably heard the saying “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” Well, if you don’t plan, you plan to stay where you are. This is not true! You can change your life and you can change your world. You can change your life and start making your dreams come true!

Here’s what I want to share with you today:

1. What is your dream?
Do you know what you want? It could be anything from a new car to a new job. Maybe you’ve always wanted to learn how to play an instrument. Maybe you’ve always wanted a better relationship with your spouse. Whatever your dream is, write it down. Write it out loud. Get really clear about what you want. Make sure it’s something that you really, really want.

2. Now think about how you can get there.
How can you go from where you are now to where you want to be? Can you visualize it? Can you see yourself doing it? Can you feel it? When you get clear about what you want, you will begin to create a vision of how you will achieve your goal.

3. What do you need to do to get there?
What are you going to need to do? What will you have to give up? What are you going to have to change? What skills are you going to have to learn? What resources will you need? What support will you need? What are you going to do to overcome any obstacles that may arise?

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4. Who are you going to need to help you?
Who will you need to help you? Who can you ask for advice? Who can you talk to? Who can you call? Who can you email? Who can you text? Who can you visit? Who can you pray with? Who can you listen to? Who can you spend time with?

5. Where are you going to find all the information that you need?
Where are you going to get the tools that you need? Where are going to find the training that you need? Where are your going to find the guidance that you need?

6. What is the first step that you are going to take?
The first step is always the hardest one. Don’t beat yourself up if you can’t get started right away. Just take one step at a time. One step at a time is always easier than trying to take 10 steps at once.

7. What is the next step that you are going to do?
The next step is always easier than the last. Keep taking steps toward your dream. Don’t give up. Don’t quit. Just keep moving forward.

8. When are you going to start?
When are you going to start doing the things that you need to do to get closer to your dream? Don’t wait until tomorrow. Start today. Don’t procrastinate. Procrastination only leads to more procrastination. Don’t put it off. Don’t put it off any longer. Take action.

9. Are you going to follow through?
Are you going to finish what you start? Are you going to follow through on what you say that you are going to do, or are you just going to talk?

10. Are you going to keep going until you reach your goal?
Are you going to continue taking the steps that you need to take until you reach your goal?

What are you waiting for? You have everything that you need to get started. You have everything that you need inside of you. You have everything that you will ever need inside of you. You just have to get started!

 

P.S. The ideas and thoughts and stories that are shared in these articles are those that have made a difference in my life and those of my friends. I hope they do the same for you. Please if you like them, do let us know in the comment section below so we can continue to bring more to you. Also do like and share. Thank you – Wandji Nguemako

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Are You Being Fooled By The World Around You? https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/are-you-being-fooled-by-the-world-around-you/ https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/are-you-being-fooled-by-the-world-around-you/#respond Fri, 04 Feb 2022 00:14:14 +0000 https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/?p=2664  

It’s been said that “the world is changing”. We’re living in an era of technological advancements and scientific discoveries, and these changes are affecting us all. For example, we’ve seen the birth of the internet and how it has changed our lives. We now have the ability to communicate with people from all over the world in a matter of seconds. We can also purchase anything from anywhere in the world, thanks to the invention of the credit card.

With the advancement of technology comes a great deal of new knowledge. However, there is one thing that hasn’t changed since the beginning of time: the human mind. The human mind is still the same as it was thousands of years ago; we still have the same thoughts, feelings, and emotions as we did thousands of years ago.

The reason why I’m saying this is because there are some people who are going through a lot of changes right now. They are experiencing a lot of confusion, stress, and anxiety. Some of them may even be depressed or anxious because of the changes they’re going through.

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One thing that many people have told me is that they’re afraid of what’s happening to them. They feel like they’re losing control over their life. This fear and uncertainty makes them want to hide out, and not face reality. They don’t want to face the fact that they’re in a time of change. They don’t want to think about what’s going to happen in the future, or how they’re going to handle things. They just want to ignore everything and stay stuck in their comfort zone.

The thing is, the more you try to ignore your problems, the worse they’ll get. You’ll end up feeling more and more stressed and frustrated. This will cause you to feel even more hopeless. Eventually, you won’t know where to turn to. This is when you start looking for answers online. You’ll find yourself reading articles, listening to audio programs, watching videos, and searching for information on how to make things better.

You’ll see a lot of people telling you to embrace the changes. They’ll say that the only way you’ll survive is by embracing the changes that are happening. You’ll hear a lot of people saying that you need to stop being afraid of the changes and learn to accept them. This is where you’ll start to realize that you’re not alone. There are so many people going through the exact same thing as you are right now.

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.” Well, I think this applies to everyone. If you’re going through something that’s making you feel hopeless and helpless, then you need to look into the possibility that you’ve been fooled before.

Maybe you’ve been fooled before by someone telling you that everything will be okay, when really it wasn’t. Maybe you’ve been fooled before by a friend or family member telling you that you’re doing the right thing. It’s possible that you’ve been fooled before by something that you read online.

If you were to go back and look at everything you’ve ever done, you’d probably realize that you’ve made mistakes along the way. You’ve done things that you shouldn’t have done, and you’ve said things that you shouldn’t have said.

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So, if you were to go back and reevaluate everything you’ve done, you might come to the conclusion that you haven’t been fooling anyone. You’ve been trying to do the best that you can with what you know, but you’re not perfect. So, you’re not perfect either.

Now, I’m not saying that you should throw away everything you’ve learned. What I am saying is that you should look at everything you’ve learned and ask yourself if you’ve been fooling yourself. Are you really sure that everything you’ve learned is the absolute truth? Are you sure that you’ve never been wrong?

You see, I think that everyone is capable of learning. We all have the ability to change. It’s important to remember that you can’t always trust everything you hear. Even though you might think that something is true, it doesn’t mean that it is.

So, what I’m saying is that you should keep an open mind. Don’t take everything you hear at face value. Instead, use your own judgment and listen to your heart. If you don’t believe something, then don’t believe it. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

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Are You Ready For The Change That You Seek? https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/are-you-ready-for-the-change-that-you-seek/ https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/are-you-ready-for-the-change-that-you-seek/#respond Thu, 03 Feb 2022 23:59:37 +0000 https://www.selfrenewalmagazine.com/?p=2660  

Are you ready for the abundance?

The question of “Are you ready for the change?” is a very important one. If we are not ready, it will be too painful to go through the change.

We need to be ready because this is not something that will happen overnight. It is a process.

So if you are not ready, what can you do to prepare yourself for the change?

1) Ask yourself why you want to make this change. Is it for your health, your family’s health, or both? If you are going for your health, then it is essential that you eat right and exercise.

2) Ask yourself how much time you have to devote to this change. Are you going to do this by yourself or with someone else? If you are going to do it alone, then it is vital that you commit to it and stick to it.

3) Ask yourself how committed you are to the change. Are you going to give up smoking, drinking, eating junk food, or any other habit that you are not proud of? If you are not willing to make this commitment, then you need to think again.

4) Ask yourself if you are emotionally ready for this change. Do you have the emotional strength to deal with the changes that you will be facing?

5) Ask yourself if you are financially prepared for this change. Are you going live within your means and are you going to make sacrifices in order to get there?

6) Ask yourself if you have the support of your friends and family. Are they going to be supportive when you start making changes? Will they help you out when you need them?

7) Ask yourself if you have enough time. How much time will you have to devote to this new lifestyle?

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8) Ask yourself if you have a plan. Have you thought about what you are going to do when you get to where you want to be?

9) Ask yourself if you have all the information you need. What do you know about this change? Have you read books on it? Do you have a coach who can help you?

10) Ask yourself if you are physically able to do it. Are you physically strong enough to make the changes?

11) Ask yourself if you are mentally able to do it. Are your thoughts clear? Are you able to make decisions without being influenced by others?

12) Ask yourself if you are spiritually prepared for this change. Do you believe that there is a higher power and that you are connected to it?

13) Ask yourself if you have your life organized. Are you organized with your time? Do you have a schedule that you follow?

14) Ask yourself if you have an action plan. Do you know what you are going to do?

15) Ask yourself if you have goals. Do you have specific goals that you are working towards?

16) Ask yourself if you have faith. Do you believe that there will be a positive outcome?

17) Ask yourself if you are happy with the way things are. Are you content with your life as it is now?

18) Ask yourself if you are in a place of gratitude. Are you grateful for all the things that you have?

19) Ask yourself if you are excited about the change. Are you excited about the possibilities that are available to you?

20) Ask yourself if you are willing to take action. Are you willing to put forth the effort necessary to achieve your goals?

21) Ask yourself if you have made the decision. Have you made the decision to make the change?

22) Ask yourself if you are ready. Are you ready to take the steps necessary to make the change?
Now that you have answered all these questions, you are ready to begin.

 

 

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